Discernment and Retreats
Prayerful Listening to God's Call
Our modern society asks us what we want to be, what we want to do with our lives… We, as Catholic Christians, are called to ask a different question: What is God’s purpose for my life? What is my vocation, Lord? Then pray, listen and wait. In time, God will reveal your state in life vocation. As you continue to pray and live your life, in the place and community where you are, God will reveal the way He wishes you to live your spiritual motherhood and womanhood.
It is necessary for one called to the Consecrated Life to understand the beauty of the married life and even to feel drawn to both. Both vocations complement and explain each other beautifully.
When God wishes to reveal your vocation, He often increases the desire in you for either married life or consecrated life. Be attentive to the signs that God could be leading you in that way. Fervently pray and seek direction from a trusted religious mentor, your confessor or spiritual director; if you feel a movement in your heart to either vocation, follow God’s inspiration.
To be called to be espoused to Him is a life long journey. Your first “yes” in response to answering His call will be repeated each day and will grow a garden of love in your heart just as Jesus grew in Mary’s womb after her “Yes. Be it done unto me according to Your word”. The Consecrated Life brings one to a total self-surrender to God.
Remember, discernment is God revealing your vocation to you. In His time, you will know. You’re not choosing which way of life you want. You are preparing to respond to God’s personal invitation to holiness through a specific way of life.
Just as the love of a spouse would prompt him or her to follow the beloved to the four corners of the world, so too will a religious leave her family in pursuit of a greater love as a bride of Christ. God has chosen in a special way those He has invited to be His own.
Retreats
We invite women ages 18-35 to take time to listen to His voice as they discern their vocation to Religious Life. Discernment retreats are held at the Holy Family Motherhouse in Baltic, CT. This prayerful opportunity will provide a firsthand experience living with the Sisters.
Resources
Spiritual Reading
“Discerning Religious Life” by Sr. Clare Matthiass, CFR
“And You Are Christ’s” by Fr. Thomas Dubay
“On the Dignity and Vocation of Women” by St. John Paul II
“How to Discern God’s Will For Your Life” by Bishop Robert Barron
Call of Abraham:
Genesis 12: 1-3; 15: 1-7
Jesus’ calling His followers:
Mark 10: 17-31
“Go, sell what you have and give to the poor; you will then have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
Luke 5: 1-11
“Put out into deep water and lower your nets for a catch.”
The Saints Speak about Discernment and Vocations
“Do not forget that when the Lord calls, He also provides the necessary strength and grace to answer His call” (St. Pope John Paul II).
“A good vocation is simply a firm and constant will to serve God in the way and places almighty God has called you” (St. Francis de Sales).
“My vocation, at last I have found it; my vocation is love” (St. Therese of Lisieux).
“Many people mistake our work for our vocation. Our vocation is the love of Jesus” (St. Teresa of Calcutta).
“The world doesn’t need what women have. The world needs what women are” (St. Teresa Benedicta of the Cross / Edith Stein).
Links
- Fr. Mike Schmitz: How Do I Discern My Vocation?
- For Love Alone: The Story of Women Religious
- Council of Major Superiors of Women Religious
- Institute on Religious Life Vocation Search
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